Peter and I have had the same issues with it on our Lotuses.
Problem is with one rod end (like what you see on McMahon's car), that piece takes a lot of drivetrain shock. Don't care how big it is, you're pulling on threads, particularly if you have a dog box and are downshifting without it. I found if I chunked a downshift, the rear of the car would move side to side because the threads stretched. When I ran a 1/2" rod end, it would eventually break. I upped the size to a 5/8" rod end and it didn't break, but would still stretch the threads.
My fix: I kept the same concept but used two radius rods coming back from in front of the axle at a 45 and connected them next to each other on the bottom of the diff. Got the rods from Speedway Motors. I think I spent about $100 total on the parts and then did some fabricating. Never had another issue.